Im Keeping My Pimp Hand Stong!

This blog is pretty, much pertaining to Facebook. Each and everyone of you are on my list, because i feel like you add something to my life. Some of you are total whack jobs, i have come to expect this, appreciate it and look forward to it.

Some of you support things, i do not. We like different things, we have a different religion, we have a different stance on politics, gun control, and the use of profanities. I personally think naughties are sentence enhancers, some dislike them. Whatever you believe, or whomever you are, I could care less. If you are kind to me, ill be kind to you!

What i am saying is, i dont care if you're gay, or straight. I dont care if you are an Athiest, Catholic, Christian, Jehovan Witness, Jewish, Pagan, A Spiritualist, Wiccan,or anything else, i didn't mention.  I dont care if you're a Democrat, Conservative, or Republican. ( I put this in alphabetical order, so no one gets offended.) One thing i do care about is if you try to push these things on me. I can not be converted, i do not wish to be. I am Stephanie and I believe strongly in Stephanology.

Another thing i care about, is my friends. I value them very much. I care about peoples feelings and how they feel about themselves. So here it comes! Ready?

1. If someone doesnt like you and they block you. Don't harass them. Do you really want them in your life, if they dont want you? Walk the hell away. Take pride in yourself, find someone who appreciates you and give them your attention.

2. If someone doesnt like you, dont have your friends attack them. let it go. It's catty and ignorant. We are not on the playground people, we have evolved!! Personally i was in a relationship like this with a chick, for years. It got ugly, we were stupid! I wasted so much energy on hate, a strong hate, that sucked energy and the life out of me, energy that could of been aimed at a healthy activity. Luckily after years of toremnet... from both parties, i got it. I went to school got my degree and walked away. This person is a good person, we are just not good together. When we walked away, from each other, it felt like a 300 lb man jumped off my shoulders. I do not hate, i do not wish harm, only happiness.

3. Dont be catty, everyone has something you dont, you have something they dont. No one has it all, No one! Instead of being a bitch, or bastard to others, find some quality in that person you like and compliment  them on it. They will feel good about themselves, which inturn you will feel great, for making them feel good. With the exception included in # 4.

4. Sometimes there is a exception, to number 3. There is going to be that person that you cant get along with, the person that makes you quiver and feel ill. Hopefully it's someone you don't have to see, or this person isnt being pushed on you. If you know this person makes you feel like this, STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM. They will make you physically and mentally ill.  Do not have friends attack them, do not involve others. I know you have that special person you need to vent to, thats ok... Do not Fabebook anything you wouldn't say to someone's face.

5. If you live in California, do not threaten someone in the East Coast. Airfare is expensive as hell! Dont waste your frequent flyer miles. Go on a vacation, get some R&R and get unangry! Life is to short.

6. Do not blast others. If you have a bad employee a bad renter, a bad landlord, keep it  between you and them. If you have a mortgage, the bank employees cant talk shit, your employer cant
talk shit, neither should you!  Give people privacey. There are laws and you could be prosecuted. If two people have changed their minds on how they feel about someone, because of something you said...you can find yourself in court. Im rusty on my law, so we will leave that there.

7. If you see people talking shit about someone, you can be damn sure they talk shit about everyone, including YOU! Some people do this, because they are Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired! So HALT!  Try speaking joy to people for 24 hours, i can quarentee you will have a better day and sleep a lot better.

8. Never believe you know the whole story, to two people's squabbles. Try not to get involved, doesnt mean you cant listen and offer incouragement. That's ok.

9. Everyone has a LIFE situation they have to deal with, before i do anything i say these two things to myself, sometimes i feel a bit fucky and i want to attack, i wont lie. I get angry and i want to cast out a million, horny,humping monkeys..to have their way with that person, but  before the befuckery is realeased i think.

1. What challanges does this person face, are they dealing with disease, depression, family, or financial problems? Do they need more shit, to deal with?

2. Can i handle this situation by walking away?

3. Did they really make me feel bad, or was it someone else that gave me this feeling? EXAMPLE. There is a man in a porsche, You are behind him, running late and he's going slow, as a constipated turtle. You start to yell, if you own a car like that, drive it like you deserve it!!!!! You dumb _____! Then you notice, he is driving behind some incompetent person, having a conversation, about who she got with last night. She is the cause, not that person. <==== That really happened and I got it!


So the Big Anouncement is this:

I dont need a bunch of numbers to feel good about myself, If you talk shit about anyone, YOU ARE GONE! This isnt the place . If  you harass someone...GONE! I dont care if we are beasties, if you post  the  best cat pictures in the world, if you tell the dirtiest jokes, or flatter me and tell me how awesome i am. I wont be friends with nasty people. Shape up, you know who you are. If you have to question if it is you....it probably is you! If you dont intend on changing...remove yourself. Everyone deserves a second chance, a few people are hanging by a thread and im holding the worlds biggest scissors.

I ask you as a favor, if you read this blog....please push the like button on the FB link. I am thinking about blogging daily, but if i dont think people are reading...ill find a different outlet.
Thanks Everyone.